Questions with the Founder - Episode 1

"I have never orgasmed, is that normal?"

You are not alone in this at all. I receive so many stories of so many people in the same boat as you.

The first thing I would say would be start with mirror gazing. Find your pleasure on your own so that when you have reached orgasm, you can now communicate to your partner what it is that you like once you have felt that on your own. Sit In front of the mirror, naked and look at yourself as the goddess/god that you are. Get to know your body. Feel what it feels like to touch yourself softly and with love in all areas of your body. Notice where on your body feels more alive when you do this. Change the strength of the touch, and the type of touch as you keep exploring. Go slowly, never rush. For women it takes around 45 minutes to reach orgasm from the time you start to explore, this can be vocal, physical, sight, taste, etc. This can include eating a meal that you feel like held and safe or that turns you on, or listening to a certain voice, or seeing someone look at you a certain way etc. Explore with different toys and the different sensations that this can bring up.

Know as well that everyone is so different in how they receive and feel pleasure, and that it can take time. Stay out of your head and in the present moment. Know that it is not about the performance(even when you are alone) but the pleasure.